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One of the highest rankings we have had yet!

Help Us Prepare For The Next Episode

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Our next show will include the Recovery Topic of Recovering Couples.  If you are in a relationship with someone who like yourself is in a 12-step recovery program, please help us prepare for the next show.  Help us understand some of the struggles you are faced with by taking our survey.

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Nominate Recovered Podcast for Best Health and Fitness Podcast

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The Podcast Awards nomination process is underway.  Just go on over to Podcast Awards and nominate:under

Health/Fitness
Podcast Name:  Recovered Podcast
Podcast URL:  http://recoveredcast.com

Thanks a bunch

Recovery Basics – Recovered 446

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If you’re new, this episode is for you.  We want to take the fear out of going to your first few meetings.  This episode is really for those of you who have not yet mustered up the courage to go to your first meeting.  But it episode can also be useful for those of you who have tried recovery programs before, but they didn’t stick.  But now you are desperate because it is getting worse.

To kick off this discussion, let’s take a look at what our listeners think are the most important basic recovery tools they have obtained in the program.

The question we asked our listeners was

Let’s start our discussion with MEETINGS

let’s open with the question

Where (how) do you find (good) meetings?

what makes a good meeting?

What should someone who is new expect at meetings?

What about the location of a meeting, does it affect whether you attend or not?

Are there types of meetings you prefer? why?

Are there types of meeting that you avoid? why?

What if you don’t like a meeting, what are your options?

Let’s move to FELLOWSHIP

How to get a sponsor?

How to get rid of a sponsor?

How to make phone calls.

How to get involved with the meeting before and after the meeting.

How to get involved in service work.

Now, let’s turn to SPIRITUALITY

How do you pray

How do you meditate

what’s the difference

When do you pray

Why do you pray

PROGRAM – let’s talk about what the program is for you

Most would agree that the program is in the steps.

What should a new person expect when they start working the step?

Do you have to do the steps?

Final Thoughts

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Recovery Basics Survey

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Take this survey and help us prepare for our next show. The Recovery Topic is: Recovery Basics. Join us live next Tuesday, October 8 at 18:30 EDT (-4 GMT.

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Grief, Loss, and Recovery – Recovered 445

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For the benefit of our  listeners who may be new to the show,


On July 2, 2013 our oldest son died suddenly and our lives have been forever changed. Andrew struggled with addictions and mental illness for at least 12 years before he took his own life.
This podcast is one of hope.


Loss and grief will come to everyone.

But we want to encourage you that 12 step groups can equip you with tools that can help you  to cope these disasters. You don’t have to believe that these tools will work for you but you do have to believe that they are working for us most of the time, some of the time?


Anna, welcome back to the studio

Anna, tell us a little about yourself, when did you first come into a 12 step program?


Our listeners took part in a survey to help us prepare for this show.

The question we asked was “How Do You Cope With Grief”.  

Anna, your thoughts on the survey?

Well, Anna, let’s jump into this segment of Grief, Loss, and Recovery.

First of all, Anna, what would you like our listeners to know about your son Andrew?
What has been the some of the most difficult things you have faced since Andrew’s death?
How has your 12 step program helped here?
What else was helpful?


Tell me about denial.  Have you experienced denial this past year?
How? How did you face denial?
As for me
Thought it was a Set up at first, Now, I find myself expecting  to hear from him.


Anger is something that i have really struggled with.  Have you been angry about Andrew’s death?
At who and why?
What did you learn about anger? need to forgive
As for me, I was angry with al anon and AA, angry with self as a way of mothering andrew


Did you go through the bargaining phase after Andrew’s death?
Explain
What did you learn?

What about isolation?
What did you learn?
What steps or what part of the program helped?

How about depression?
Did you experience guilt?
What steps, slogan, part of the program helped?

Where are you with acceptance?

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App For Traverse City Fall Round Up

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I’ll be speaking at the TC Fall Roundup. We would love to see you there.

Our app for this regional conference is ready!  You can get it by typing this URL into any smartphone browser: http://www.tapcanvas.com/go/tcroundup.  Please share as you wish, and feel free to get it on your phone as a mobile program for the roundup.

How Do You Cope With Loss and Grief?

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Help Anna and me prepare for our next Episode on Monday, September 30 and take this survey.  Join us live at 6:30 pm EDT (-4 GMT).

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Fear of Change – Recovered 444

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Let’s begin by talking about fear in general, and let’s check what our listeners had to say
Question posed on our website at recoveredcast.com
When You Were New, What Did You Fear?


OK, what about fear and the spiritual life, it there a connection? (p 52 of BB)
Let’s read from the big book, page 52 for those keeping score at home


We were having trouble with personal relationships, we couldn’t control our emotional natures, we were a prey to misery and depression, we couldn’t make a living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn’t seem to be of real help to other people – was not a basic solution of these bedevilments more important than whether we should see newsreels of lunar flight? Of course it was.


When we saw others solve their problems by a simple reliance upon the Spirit of the Universe, we had to stop doubting the power of God. Our ideas did not work. But the God idea did.
Thoughts?


Let’s talk about the relationship between fear and self-centeredness? (p. 62 of BB)
Let’s read from page 62 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous.


Selfishness – self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles. Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate. Sometimes they hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt.
So our troubles, we think, are basically of our own making. They arise out of ourselves, and the alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot, though he usually doesn’t think so

What about fear and the steps, any thoughts? (p. 67 BB) and solution (p. 68, 75, 84,145)

Now let’s talk specifically about the Fear of Change

We asked our listeners to help us prepare for this show, so we asked them about their fears.  This is what they told us
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What changes were you most fearful of when you first came in?
What do you think is the root cause of your fears early on?
Did it change?  How?  In what way?
What is it like now?
How is it different today?

Regarding fear, what steps, tools, slogans are most helpful for you early on and now?

Check out this episode!

This Week’s Survey: Fear

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