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Call Recovered About Step 4

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This week, the Recovered Podcast will continue our step study journey.  On Tuesday, February 2,  2016, The Recovery Topic is Step 4.  Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

The Fourth Step brings us to a specific course of action that the AA Big Book describes as “vigorous.”  It is a “personal house-cleaning which many of had never attempted.”  The Fourth Step strengthens the decision we made in the Third Step and helps us carry it out.  According to the AA Big Book, unless we make a “strenuous effort to face, and to be rid of, the things in ourselves which have been blocking us,” our decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understand Him can “have little permanent effect.”

Let’s talk about this solution.  Tap Speakpipe (especially if you are outside the Unites States) or call 1-734-288-7510 and answer the following question(s):
What were some of the barriers to you starting the Fourth Step?
What were some of the barriers to completing your Fourth Step?
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Step 3 – Recovered 669

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The 12 and 12

24 Hours a Day

With the first step, we accepted the fundamental problem we face as alcoholics,

our powerlessness over alcohol and the unmanageability of our lives.  

In the second step, we found the nature of our solution:

a Power greater than ourselves who could restore us to sanity.  ‘

In the third step, we discover how to make use of that solution by

turning our will and our lives over to the care of that power.

Step 3 has been summarized as:  

I can’t, God can, I think I’ll let him

The 12 and 12 says,

… the effectiveness of the whole AA program will

rest upon how well and earnestly we have tried to

come to a decision to turn our will and our lives

over to the care of God as we understood him.”

Steps 1, 2, and 3 are the foundation of our program.

Let’s go to you first Cristie,

what are your initial thoughts on this topic?

where do you want to start?

What does it mean to you to make a decision?

What does the phrase “God as we understood him” mean to you?

What is your concept of God?

What does it mean to turn ‘our will and lives over to the care of God” to you?

What is the difference between a life run on self-will and a life that follows God’s will?

How well as self-will served you?

What does “self-centeredness is the root of our troubles” mean to you?

What is a recent example of exercising self-will rather than following God’s will?

How can you know God’s will?

How does prayer and meditation help you discover God’s will?

How is humility different than humiliation?

What reservations have you had about turning your will over to the care of God?

Is recovery God’s will for you?  How do you know?

How is “taking it back” and “turning it over” related?

What prayers do you use to get/stay centered in times of difficulty?

We have Calls

Scott

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_BaAWAVSoyf2pCvHDWaauRhZCxwDhNwn5mfanSKKWos5RDEGNwdxD2P_hgforoGSfi2Sbu7gAg2sL9KjTiX7RqOHy3OWBL-tVopbNcXciIV3FVUfanIE18GVQ3VdLM0xpSG60eCiLY9ipQ8w-piibzJ5gva0g

Erika

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Clyde

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Dora From Boston

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Alex

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Vicky

https://www.speakpipe.com/msg/p/50344/82/mvkylmxabcogwqrdwdn7bumow4eno0ooxw2l3rh2zrcr5

Buddy

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_Br59cP78xebIDB6BfkpVZ-E1xV2RMgTvAgc__UNWfNRNq77e5vYB194vWYgi6J7Rtp4AgTuNixb85vhteVrxAhXtjJvsNGnsnOCdSciXtEgBBuN2OC3yyJSgx52BslZnbrooWp066dxni6h7hh5ESfAuw5EQ

What would you say to the new person about step 3?

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Call Recovered About Step 3

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If you would like to listen to the live stream of the show on Tuesday, January 26, 2016 at 6:30 pm EST, just tap Recovered Radio Live Stream
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This week, the Recovered Podcast will continue our step study journey.  On Tuesday, January 26,  2016, The Recovery Topic is Step 3.  Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

With the first step, we accepted the fundamental problem we face as alcoholics, our powerlessness over alcohol and the unmanageability of our lives.  In the second step, we found the nature of our solution: a Power greater than ourselves who could restore us to sanity.  In the third step, we discover how to make use of that solution by turning our will and our lives over to the care of that power.


Step 3 has been summarized as:  I can’t, God can, I think I’ll let him.


The 12 and 12 says, “… the effectiveness of the whole AA program will rest upon how well and earnestly we have tried to come to a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood him.”


Steps 1, 2, and 3 are the foundation of our program.

Let’s talk about this solution.  Tap Speakpipe (especially if you are outside the Unites States) or call 1-734-288-7510 and answer the following question(s):

What does it mean to make a decision?


What does the phrase “God as we understood him” mean to you?

Recovered Podcast is live online every Tuesday at 6:30 pm as we record the show.  Join the fun and be part of the show. 


Premium Member Only Open Talk Pam H. – Recovered 667

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The 12 and 12

24 Hours a Day

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Step 2 – Recovered 666

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Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity

The second step is about hope, a Higher Power, and dealing with reality.

This step logically follows step 1 in which we surrendered and gave up.

With surrender comes all kinds of unmedicated feelings.

We have to face

Feelings we haven’t dealt with in years or maybe ever.

We likely will have to confront uncomfortable emotions like

our fear, anger, hopelessness.

For us with chemical dependency,

we have to face these things without alcohol and drugs.

For us with codependency,

we have to face these emotions without blame, shame, and self harm

If all of us in this room are powerless,

how can we solve these problems?

How can we cope?

That is why we need step 2, we need a power greater than ourselves.

Let’s go to you first Kayla.

Welcome back to the studios

where have you been?

What is your sobriety date?

where is you home group?

who is your sponsor?

What are your initial thoughts?

Where do you want to begin?

What does the phrase “Power greater than ourselves” mean to you?

What does the term sanity in this step mean to you?

Why does the step say that a Power greater than ourselves

could restore us to sanity rather than

would restore us to sanity?

On the Power greater than yourself issue, where did you start in your belief?

Has your belief system changed?

How?

What is willingness and how does that work in this step?

Have you ever had to be willing to be willing to make a start?

Addiction is a disease of loneliness, how does this fellowship help?

How has the fellowship helped you?

We have calls

first call

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_AVvgTYZMV537lUNl9bnTFXORt9bX6Dekho8zhaRdrqFm0OmXOj71VuURKXg3M12IW4JOreDdq8W-HcykdOl2GZ8nJdg60-Cf3aqSn13WAMl6rT6EqVw7SRflwRxb721wmYzgf1ZHYqr6Xu6wj-DwibgN8Usg

Jen

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_BkdxQlwaw811niVgYRVnkN4ap6q7OwTp6NDFJjaEki5eUjlQrkTOLY9thMyHXNlCSBxQAx10nUr9lN3xw1hf5J00lVy4pvkAhplwIP4howrLaj2eOc-TlElRxHTmckYj3eci_PFeoJ-yQY7G1PIpxRrX7jWA

Russ

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Sarah

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Clyde

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Kurt

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_BCizU0sM5MYQIKhdfC249w_FaWvTh7-mUkW6R1DnT7CvvmJ8zAy9v9FsssiYzMfr5NZMi3aViOCRwmoQTkQ0WxYE5IoP9cZ7A6a1pzu9fj2VGwJbU-9snES0dl7Ukw5vHjLz00EJx2rirY8MjHBRI5dKGzrA

Jeanie

https://www.speakpipe.com/messages

How is sanity and reality related?

Tell us about your step 2 story?

What would you say to the new person about step 2?

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Call Recovered About Step 2

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This week, the Recovered Podcast will continue our step study journey.  On Monday, January 18,  2016, The Recovery Topic is Step 2.  Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

The second step is about hope, a Higher Power, and dealing with reality.  In Step 1 we discovered we were powerless over our problem, “Lack of power, that was our dilemma.”  In Step 2, we are given the solution.

Let’s talk about this solution.  Tap Speakpipe (especially if you are outside the Unites States) or call 1-734-288-7510 and answer the following question:

What does the phrase, “Power greater than ourselves” mean to you?

Recovered Podcast is live online every Tuesday at 6:30 pm as we record the show.  Join the fun and be part of the show.  Remember, this week only we will podcast on a Monday night.

If you would like to listen to the live stream of the show on Monday, January 18, 2016 at 6:30 pm EST, just tap Recovered Radio Live Stream

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Step 1 – Recovered 664

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The Big Book
The 12 and 12
24 Hours a Day

The Big Book devotes 2 whole chapters to Step 1;
Chapter II, There is a Solution and Chapter  III, More About Alcoholism

Step 1 is an admission of the central problem we face as alcoholics.
Once we can admit our powerlessness,
a door opens to the solution to our problem.

What does it mean to you to admit something?
Why do you think the step says, “We admitted”
rather than “I admitted?”

What does the term “powerless over alcohol”  mean to you?
What are some of you experiences?
What does the term “our lives had become unmanageable” mean to you?
What are some of your experiences?

On page 30 of the big book, it reads,
“We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed.”

The book tells us that we had to learn that we had to being powerless to alcohol..
Where did you learn your powerlessness? (big book, meetings, open talks, podcasts, etc)
What does fully concede mean to you?
concede – admit that something is true or valid after first denying or resisting it.
What should a person do if they are not sure they are alcoholic?
Who are we to admit our alcoholism to? Who really matters? Why?

We have Calls

Tony
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Russ
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Buddy
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Bill from NJ
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from kurt
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Jeanie
https://www.speakpipe.com/messages

When you took step one,
was it an intellectual acceptance or
was it more like an emotional acceptance?

The Big Book and the 12 and 12 describe the process of step 1 as:
utter defeat
bankruptcy
hopelessness and
hitting bottom
Why does it have to be this painful? (12 and 12, p. 24)

What did the first step accomplish for you?

What would you say to the new guy about step 1?

Check out this episode!