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Pete E’s Open Talk – Recovered 494

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Choosing a Treatment Facility – Recovered 493

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Jim and Jason, we’ve been asked by many of our listeners, “How do we select a Treatment Program?”  So I thought I’d ask you guys who have experience in the field some questions our listeners would like to Ask about Treatment Programs

Questions like…

how long?

how much?

what guarantee?

Have you heard these questions before Jim?

Alright then…So Jim, How long?

What about it Jason, how much?

Ok guys, what’s the guarantee?

1. Let’s start at the beginning.  The first step in any Treatment is an assessment.

How do you know if you need treatment?

First of all what is an assessment and why is it important?

Do Treatment Facilities have different levels of care? What is important?

What are the Levels of Care available?  What is critical?

How are clients evaluated during the treatment process, do clients get re-assessed?

What is eligibility criteria? 

What about dual diagnosis?  How do facilities deal with co-occurring mental health problems?

Does the program treat mental health problems?

What about the use of Medication-Assisted Treatment?

What about a client on meds, can facilities manage medications?

2  What about COMPREHENSIVE INTEGRATED TREATMENT 

What is it?

What types?

What questions should be asked about Medical Care –

What about Sexual Health services, what might be available?

Trauma Services 

Educational/Vocational Assistance 

Other Services

What about the recovering community?

4. STAFF QUALIFICATIONS AND TRAINING 

staff-to-patient ratio?

What is the general nature of the staff?

Do treatment centers have doctors?

How about nurses?

What about the techs?

5. PAYING FOR TREATMENT 

Payment Questions

What is the cost of the program? – 

Is insurance accepted? – 

financial aid? – 

payment plan or sliding scale? – 

6. ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS ABOUT THE PROGRAM

Is the program 12 step based?

What about evidence based treatment?

What about group therapy?

Individual treatment?

Is the program licensed by the state? Can some operate without a license?

What is the accreditation status of the program? 

7. QUESTIONS TO ASK ABOUT FAMILY INVOLVEMENT

Friends and family, this is commonright?  What is it?

Why is it important?

Al Anon?

11. CONTINUING CARE AND RECOVERY SUPPORTS 

Does the treatment taper off so youth gradually leave the safety of the program?

Does the program design a continuing care plan that specifies what youth should do after they are discharged — such as get involved with positive free time activities?

Does the program provide referrals to community services that offer things for your child to do that don’t involve drug or alcohol use?

Any other things the program does to help the ongoing recovery process? 

Once the program ends, does the staff conduct a few check-ups to see how things are going?

12. PROGRAM EVALUATION

Have you had your program evaluated?

What types of data have you collected and analyzed?

What are the outcomes of the evaluation?

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Herb M’s Open Talk – Recovered 492

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Marty G’s Open Talk – Recovered 491

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Erin G’s Open Talk – Recovered 490

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Challenges of Early Recovery – Recovered 489

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As a way of introducing this topic of Challenges of Early Sobriety, I thought we would ask our listeners what they struggled with in their early recover.  We asked, “What did you struggle with in early sobriety?”  Some of the responses we received included 

Cravings

Triggers

Relationships

Emotions

Change

Sleep

Money

The Law

What do you think was our most common response?

Let’s start our discussion with Triggers

We must be aware of our triggers, those circumstances that can lead to a desire for drink.  What were some of your triggers, then and what ARE some of your triggers now?

Cravings – The book would actually call this obsession of the mind, cravings, it the book, means that phenomenon of desire for more after you drink.  What about drinking thoughts and dreams?  Your experience?  What tools do you use to combat obsession of the mind?

Withdrawal Symptoms – can continue for weeks after the individual has given up abusing the substance. These symptoms can impact the individual’s mental state and their feelings. The aches and pains of withdrawals can make the individual feel irritable. Your experience?  How did you cope?

Overwhelming emotions – one of the reasons why people turn to substance abuse in the first place is to escape these feelings. Once the individual manages to escape their addiction it means that their emotions come alive again. If people haven’t really had to deal with these feelings in many years it can feel a bit overwhelming. You experience?  Anger, sadness, guilt, grief, which emotions were difficult for you?

How did you manage your feelings?

Change – Early recovery involves making lots of changes. It usually means [saying goodbye to acquaintances who are still drinking or using drugs](http://alcoholrehab.com/alcohol-rehab/social-support-for-drinking/). It also means making new friends. Addicts will revolve their life around drugs so when they get sober they have a big hole that they have to fill with new activities. With so many changes going on it is hardly surprising that people become emotional.  What was your experience with change?  What changes did you go through?  How did you cope?

Relationships – These will also change in recovery.  These changes can be for the good, some are extremely painful.  Grief is also part of this separation process.  What was your experience?  What steps did you use to try and evaluate current relationships?  How was this healthy?  How was this not healthy?

Sleep – Some people suffer from insomnia during the early days of their recovery. Sleep is needed for good mental health so lack of it will cause problems to the individual’s emotional state. Your experience?

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Final Thoughts

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Ben R’s Open Talk – Recovered 488

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Recovery and the Family -Recovered 487

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Raising a Family in Recovery
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When I came into recovery, I was not on a winning streak.
And neither was my family on a winning streak.
As a matter of fact, my family was on the rocks.
I thought my loved ones would be thrilled when I came into the program, but as far as I could tell, they were just as pissed as ever.

Suzie…

Tell us a little about your family life before coming into the program.
I think you really have two stories
One with your parents
and the other with your daughter
Tell us a little about what it used to be like?
What did your family look like when you were using?

Janet, welcome to the studio
For the benefit of our listeners, tell us a little about yourself
what is your sobriety dat, who’s your sponsor, where is your home group?

Tell us a little about what it used to be like?
What did your family look like when you were using?

What was your experience with your loved ones before recovery?

How did the relationship change after recovery?
Did your recovery upset the family unit after recovery?
Was the family jealous of recovery?
How is it changing today?

Did you ever explain your addiction and recovery to your family?
Did this discussion continue as the children grew older?
Did you children/loved ones ever seek recovery?
Have your loved ones ever describe what it was like for them when you were using?
How did you react?
What about the amends process, have you done this with your loved ones?

Making time to be together is important, how did you do this with your loved ones?
Did you ever feel the need to buy their love back?
How about recovery activities, do your loved ones attend open talk meetings?

Have you ever Scheduled weekly family meetings so things can be discussed openly?
They say consistency is important,
what are your experiences with being consistent with the family?
What does inconsistent behavior do to the family dynamic?
dependable, responsible and reasonable parenting, what does this mean to you?
What does consistent behavior look like to you?

Your thoughts on therapy for the family?

Final Thoughts

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Call In and Tell Us Your Story About Family Life in Recovery

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We would really appreciate your contribution to the show.  Think of it as service work.  What you share may be exactly what the new person needs to hear.

Call In And Share Your Story About Family Life in Recovery.
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Hi, my name is Mark and my story of family life is about acceptance and gratitude.  Early in my recovery, it seemed like all my friends family lives were so much better than mine.  It seemed to me that all their kids and careers were so much better than mine.  Some nights,  I would go to my AA meeting, my wife would go to al-anon, my oldest son would be in treatment, and my youngest son would go to al-ateen.  I came to accept the fact that we were all in recovery and learning how to live life on life’s terms.  This led me to gratitude for my program.

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