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Sponsorship is not about relating to another individual.
It is about getting better someone else’s way.

Everyone is told to get a sponsor
Not everyone is told how to get a sponsor

But there are some guidelines on how to get a sponsor
We are going to talk about that tonight.

I think a sponsor is to help someone work the 12 steps.

Let’s go to you first Angelo,
In you opinion…

What Is Sponsorship?
How does sponsorship differ from Twelfth Step calls? 8
How does sponsorship help the newcomer? 9
How should a sponsor be chosen? 9

Should sponsor and newcomer be as much alike as possible? 9
Must the newcomer agree with everything the sponsor says? 10
What if the sponsor is unavailable when needed? 10

May a newcomer have more than one sponsor? 10
May a newcomer change sponsors? 11

Is it ever too late to get a sponsor? 11

How does sponsorship help the sponsor? 12
Can any member be a sponsor? 12
When is a member ready for sponsorship responsibility? 13

What does a sponsor do and not do? 13
Is there any one best way of sponsoring a newcomer? 155
How can a sponsor explain the A.A. program? 15

How can a sponsor work with an alcoholic’s family? 16
Should a sponsor lend money to a newcomer? 17
Should a sponsor intercede with an employer? 18

When newcomers resist “the spiritual side” of the program,
what can sponsors do? 21
How should a sponsor deal with slips? 21
Can a member sponsor more than one newcomer simultaneously? 22

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For those of you that will be at the 2017 March Roundup AA Michigan Regional Conference in Dearborn, Michigan, we invite you to attend the Recovered Podcast Reception and celebrate recovery with the crew.

The event will be held on Saturday, March 11, 2017 at 3:00 pm in a second floor reception room at the Edward Hotel and Convention Center, the same facility as where the Roundup is being held. The location is subject to change so please verify it in the final program at the conference.

The reception will include coffee, snacks, fellowship, and a live performance of the Recovered Podcast with the topic “Why Do You Go to Conferences?”.  Bring your sponsors, co-dependents, new guy, sponsees and lets have some fun.  After the Podcast show, we will go downstairs and attend the keynote Open Talk by John C. from London, England.  After John, we will go out for dinner together!

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It should be said that I am podcasting right now with my mobil gear and trying out the sound quality. I am trying to replicate the sound as if I am in the studio, but I am not, I am in a conference room at rook with nothing but a mic and my iphone,

Let me know how the mobile sound is.

Now, let’s get to the topic..

Staying sober during business trips

Next week I will be up north at Soaring Eagle Resort and Casino for the annual Winter Conference for a business association

Plenty of opportunities to fall into old behaviors

Old character defects like:
Grandiosity
I feel inadequate
Lonely
Selfish
Fear

So brought all of you with me

But First, i asked you all a question to find out how you stay sober on the road

Survey

Let look at what other people have written on this topic.

I came across this article

5 Tips for Staying Sober on a Business Trip
by REBECCA A. WATSON on JUNE 19, 2016

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Tuesday night, I will be podcasting from my hotel room at Soaring Eagle Resort and Casino. I will be at a Winter conference for a business association.
Join me and keep me company as I try to carry a message of hope and recovery in the midst of free alcohol and gambling!
Let’s talk about this solution.

Call me and help me stay sober while I am on this business trip! Really, I need you to call me.
Tap http://recoveredcast.com/speakpipe (especially if you are outside the Unites States) . I won’t be able to retrieve phone calls and play them from the hotel room, but I can play the speakpipe messages. Use speakpipe, the sound quality is excellent!

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If you grew up in a family where
one or both parents used anger to control you,
then anger likely plays a role in your life now.

Why do you think we have anger?
What purpose does anger have?

Did you grow up with anger in your household?
Did one or both of your parents use anger as a way to keep you in line and have control over you?
How did you respond?
Were you ever been punished for being angry?
How do you think suppressing anger affects you?
Does your anger come out in other ways?

Were you angry when you came into recovery?
Have you been angry with AA?
Have you been angry with a sponsee?
Have you been angry with a group/club?

Do you use anger to avoid other uncomfortable feelings?
Do you use anger to control people?

Now, as an adult, what part does anger play in your life?
Do you use anger to control, trying to get others to do what you want?

Do you use compliance to control others, trying to make sure they don’t get angry with you?
Do you shut down, withdraw and resist when others are angry, to punish them and not be controlled by them?

When is anger a good thing?
How is anger and injustice related?
What is a healthy response to anger?
What is an unhealthy response to anger?

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Tuesday night, the Recovery Topic is Anger as a Form of Control.”
If you grew up in a family where one or both parents used anger to control you, then anger likely plays a role in your life now.
Let’s talk about this solution. Tap http://recoveredcast.com/speakpipe (especially if you are outside the Unites States) or call 1-734-288-7510 and answer the following question(s):
Do you use anger to avoid other uncomfortable feelings?
Do you use anger to control people?
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If you would like to listen to the live stream of the show, just tap http://recoveredcast.com/liveradio . We give away an Amazon gift card each week, you could win if you join us on Tuesdays.
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