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Had to cancel our regularly scheduled episode on Step 8.  Join us next week as we dive into this topic.  In the meantime, enjoy Joe and Charlie as they discuss Step 8.

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On Tuesday, March 1,  2016, The Recovery Topic is Step 8.  Made a list of persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

Step 8 is concerned with our personal relationships.  It is an examination of how we have dealt with people in the past and, more specifically, how we have harmed them.  This step is the basis for developing a more productive and satisfactory way of dealing with others. The AA 12 and 12 says that step 8 is the beginning of the end of isolation from our fellows and from God.

According to the Alcoholics Anonymous 12 and 12, steps 8 & 9 involved this process:

1. we take a look backward and try to discover where we had been at fault,
2. we make a vigorous attempt to repair the damage we have done, and
3. have a thus cleaned away the debris of the past, we consider how, with our new found knowledge of ourselves, we may develop the best possible relations with every human being we know.

This is a very large order.
The Eighth  steps suggest that we prepare an amends list. This list should be in writing and include the names of all the people we have harmed who appeared in our fourth step inventory. We add the names of anyone we had forgotten or overlooked. Have we included everyone whom we can remember? Is there anyone to whom we did something that we still feel guilty about? The Alcoholics Anonymous 12 and 12 says that we ransack memory for the people to whom we have given offense. To put a finger on the nearby and most deeply damaged ones shouldn’t be hard to do. Then, as year by year we walk back through our lives as far as our memory will reach, we shall be bound to construct a long list of people who have, to some extent or another, been affected. Our objective is to make the list as complete as possible.

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What is the purpose of this step?
Have you ever put yourself on this list?

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The 12 and 12

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Our Topic on Tuesday, March 1, 2016 will be on Step 8, Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

The Twelve and Twelve tells us that “the whole emphasis of Step Seven is on humility.”  We first looked at humility in the Third Step when we made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God.  Without some humility, no alcoholic can stay sober, no Al-Anon can stay serene.  Our experience has shown us that without humility, we cannot live a purposeful life.  AA teaches us that a useful life is one in the service of others.  This may be a bit tricky for the Al-Anon since we so often are worried about others that we forget about ourselves.

Bill Wilson explains humility this way, “As long as we placed self-reliance first, genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question.  That basic ingredient of humility is a desire to seek and do God’s will.”  When we live life run on self will, humility is missing.  Humility, we discover, is not something to re resisted, but something to be accepted.  

Bill Wilson wrote that the process of accepting humility “was unbelievably painful.  It was only by repeated humiliations that we were forced to learn something about humility.”  Taking the Third Step was a bold example of spiritual humility because it was a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God.  With the Seventh Step, we have an opportunity to put that decision into practice by asking God to do something specific for us.  We are humbly asking God to remove our character defects.  We are saying your will, not mine.   But we must accept the terms, conditions, and timetable that our Higher Power has in mind.

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We conducted a survey so that our listeners can help us understand this step

We posed the question, “What does humble mean to you?”

The possible responses were …

https://www.surveymonkey.com/analyze/eZfqbdNAalFL8WtGq8cIf7nLG1usZk4JSs8edkIhoFw_3D’

What is interesting is that this survey proves that we people in a 12-step recovery program have our own language.

The possible responses I provided in the survey sent to our listeners came directly from the definition of humble in the dictionary.

But “other” was the second most popular response.

In other words, being humble means something different to AAs than normal people.

So ,? let’s discuss how we understand this step and how humility plays a role.

What does it mean to you to be humble?

How are you humble?  How can I become more humble?

What does the term “humbly ask” mean to you?

Before program, what did you think of humility? Was it a positive/negative?

Before program, did you experience humiliation?

What is the difference between humility and humiliation?

What are “our shortcomings?”

How is Step 3 related to Step 7?

How does acceptance relate to Step 7?

What is the Seventh Step Prayer?

The Seventh Step Prayer
from page 76 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous
My Creator,
I am now willing that You should have all of me,
good and bad.
I pray that You now remove from me
every single defect of character which stands in the way
of my usefulness to You and my fellows.
Grant me strength, as I go out from here,
to do Your bidding.
Amen

What does it mean to you that God “should have all of me, good and bad?”

In this prayer, character defects stand in the was of being useful to others and God.  What does this mean to you?

What does it mean to you “to do your bidding?”

We  have Calls

Kurt

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_DSgX5xQO_ctfgHN07nOiGUFPnVMMmKN_kVq06FWPA9D3oeaxiMOLEiOvSYb_LPSZrHnbWALRGYhmkFmwtcLJuOzDPIgMTY3TcxLta-tKAkVQXhOPXHoAc2e_BTS8QmwFl6araH0SAucKZSwK36ivPcsiMbRw

Scott

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_AjH-QjECcwXnaO3e8HC9BiBF65sxdPXyb-TWrJBSMP8XMDXq5fj1oR6S4g0Btwcf1WOtZ1DFDen0oUMl1A4t4FgLLr0XiaBgQO5fD1KI864-jU19ap6XCO_zWuOyokPG4caWI0qDmbQpnDe1l7t7FytHhoxg

Clyde from Shelby Township

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_CRVTLspvpZnBbDFlvc0KukAlaeMeLlAOrKFx3TgYNzi6bnDWT1AoJQZSGsBZCx2UyWSwYfujNOJaXz-20NZWbMNOhf69jSkFqc8iCjJApR8andkti12TGR4ZDfRIZs3GkNqAJDqdpu6cs7_yASlf7F4wcLNQ

Tony

https://www.speakpipe.com/messages

Russ

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#inbox/153104558a23eb60?projector=1

Alex

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_An1NUf9Ezj_Sg_R0A9vvVf-5sHs5zSWuBqGgniquJmBcAKDJToW5XBp0tK5MHAh13UxE6Ufo-k7wAAlLcWd-RMEtEeHC1IYKn3RtYHIHV_vt2SVAtGNBrQMFKRxojoYaFx2EHf5DWevttD0vh9EMIxXbaUfQ

How about now, have you been humiliated in recovery?

Is there a difference in how you responded to humiliated between before and after program?

What would you say to the new person faced with Step 7 for the first time?

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Our topic on Tuesday will be on Step 7, humbly asked Him to remove all these defects of character. Take our survey and help us prepare for the show.

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On Tuesday, February 23, 2016, The Recovery Topic is Step 7.  Humbly asked Him to remove all these defects of character.

The Twelve and Twelve tells us that “the whole emphasis of Step Seven is on humility.” We first looked at humility in the Third Step when we made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God. Without some humility, no alcoholic can stay sober. Our experience has shown us that without humility, we cannot live a purposeful life. AA teaches us that a useful life is one in the service of others.

Bill Wilson explains humility this way, “As long as we placed self-reliance first, genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question. That basic ingredient of humility is a desire to seek and do God’s will.” When we live life run on self will, humility is missing. Humility, we discover, is not something to re resisted, but something to be accepted.

Bill Wilson wrote that the process of accepting humility “was unbelievably painful. It was only be repeated humiliations that we were forced to learn something about humility.” Taking the Third Step was a bold example of spiritual humility because it was a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God. With the Seventh Step, we have an opportunity to put that decision into practice by asking God to do something specific for us. We are humbly asking God to remove our character defects. We are saying your will, not mine. But we must accept the terms, conditions, and timetable that our Higher Power has in mind.

What is humility?

What is the difference between humility and humiliation?

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Step 6 addresses the issue of our readiness to have removed the defects of character we identified in Step 4.  After the hard work of the previous two steps, this step seems quick and easy.  Not much is required in terms of action, but our experience is that a great deal is required both emotionally and spiritually.  Ultimately, this Step asks us if we are willing to behave different.

If we do not recognize a problem, we cannot solve it.  Working Step 6 allows us to see our problem clearly.  This Step focuses our attention on our willingness to give up defects of character, even defects that we enjoy.  But we know that all character defects can lead us back to our addictions, even the character defects that we like.  Step 6 allows us the ability to see even those pleasurable defects and ncourages us to find a spiritual solution.

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The Big Book

The 12 and 12

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We conducted a survey of our listeners this week.

We simply asked, “Have you worked step 6?”

Let’s look at the results

Listener Survey Results

Let’s start with you ??,

what was your initial reaction to his step early in your program and

What was your understanding of this step?

What does the term “defects of character” mean to you?

Coming off of Step 5, what are some of the character defects that you wanted to be rid of?

As you were working Step 6, what character defect did you want to hold onto?

What problems have your favorite character defect caused you?

What does it mean to be “entirely ready”?

Why do you need God’s help and why can’t you rely on self-will?

How is the removal of character defect related to the restoration of your sanity?

If someone is not willing, how can they become willing?

We Have Calls

Mandy

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Alex

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_DhJbhgObrJ8TjXMRXNIP_fSEmckhxO9NcGAYsuxmmAAnfQ6Tmf2tzEp3HOVwj3Qt6GX3fl54jmqTrlRxlttWJkTLe2h2OMfC8zAyQswFQF7ijzD4SYV7gy0O-nxLYLZjIw5OSJKsiedQ9sPpDrm-sJfXcmOg

Mark G

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_Df_QsD9d2ZRQ1JtTvVxtS7gao_9nE3EDd20H88eehpvbAZl09FwBzPQh0-ND_U4juWvs0R-7e1kQQ3fvcuKBYLXC2bHy8NqyYMO1HCVNqnS5ezzx6wNnPPLXsjYk2q1BP5DeUgkAJsiM3g4ZjTIDOkyfnE4Q

Justin P

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_DP2-urAI2D1OmMgW7hmXpdMlJSmDpVMuzmf1s61BIvOeLd-CLVX_ZHsTuBWhopWm88mad_n5UVl3U_gZTt4Wrnd9_QVrQ7scKGqn2GVjLJd2QEiWrCccxx9WsiY5VJqHbbbTfq4_zH-fvvPdC9G-lglPQpcA

Chris S.

https://www.speakpipe.com/messages

Clyde

https://www.google.com/voice/fm/00557165274674955804/AHwOX_DKqeGgeXjded4vbXmNxrjJN5KZGIhy7p4_kOn9DWx8FZ-fKhap3TgNtDcnCPfuiVOI7M6g8y2wWmkEq2sfpC1_32F67-Tr1gYtHqJvUzJCaRWq67aszIRWv9i6bmh8EeQKNVpxnehXDfg6BRYliaXgTbeW6A

Russ and Linda

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#inbox/152ebb40edd8e237?projector=1

What would you say to the new person faced with Step 6 for the first time?

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