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ThisOpen Talk was provided by our own guest host Nathan in February 2015 at the PC Alanp Club in Canton, Michigan.
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Gratitude List ExplainedBenefits of Keeping a Gratitude List* It is highly beneficial for people to keep a positive attitude in their recovery. Those who regularly think about the good things in their life will be able to maintain a positive attitude.* Somebody is less likely to relapse if they are grateful for what they currently have.* If the individual is having thoughts of relapse they will be able to read their gratitude list and be reminded of what they have to lose.* It is easy for people to miss all the things they have to feel good about. A gratitude list will be a good reminder.* This type of journaling can also be a good way for the individual to gauge their progress in recovery.Dangers of Taking Recovery for GrantedGrateful People in Recovery Never RelapseDangers of Stinking Thinking* Ill-will towards other people.* Experiencing pleasure upon hearing about other people’s failures – this is usually referred to asSchadenfruede.* Holding an overly pessimistic view of life.* Feeling superior to everyone else.* Feeling inferior to everyone else.* Making mountains out of molehills. The individual will blow any problems out of proportion.* They will tend to view the world in black or white with things either right or wrong. This is not a good way to look at life because there can be so many gray areas and uncertainties.* This type of thinking involves spending too much time focused on the faults of other people.* They will be self-obsessed and behave in a grandiose manner.Journaling in Recovery* In a stream of consciousness diary the individual just writes down everything that comes into their heads. They make no attempt to edit their writing in any way.* People in recovery can also start a spiritual diary where they record their experiences and thoughts while trying to develop their spirituality.* A health/exercise journal is where the individual records their efforts to get physically back in shape.How to Create a Gratitude List* It is also possible for people to write a gratitude list in a longer form. Here they can describe in more detail each of the things they feel grateful about.* In order for it to be effective the gratitude list is not something that people do once and then forget about. It should be updated regularly – at least once a week but many people will try to add to this list daily.* It is a good idea to buy a nice notebook for these gratitude notes. It is likely going to be something that the individual will want to cherish.* If people are having thoughts of drinking or using drugs again they should read back on their gratitude lists as parts of their relapse prevention plan.* Modern technology means that there are now many options for people who want to create an electronic gratitude list.* If people are unsure about what they should feel grateful about they will find plenty of examples of gratitude lists online.
Sanity – Recovered 582
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Let’s start with the steps as an introduction to this topic
Step 2 reads
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Step 2 tells the new person that the alcoholic life is an insane one and that there is a solution.
Before program, what did you understand insanity to be?
Did you think you were insane before program?
What about your attitude toward liquor, did you think you were abnormal regarding drink?
What about when you first entered the program, how was this form of insanity toward liquor explained?
What does sanity mean to you now?
But this stp is not just for the new guy.
I spend alot of time on this step because I forget who is in charge when I take my will back.
Then I become miserable, my life can get out of control, I can feel that insanity has returned.
1. What things are you doing over and over and expecting different results?
2. If step 2 is true and a higher power is needed for sanity, What is preventing you from believing that God can restore you to sanity?
3. In what ways do you see God at work restoring you to sanity?
4. In what areas of your life are you still demonstrating self-will?
5. What are you doing now that is interfering with your relationship with your higher power?
We are about the solution.
What steps, prayers, slogans do you use to bring yourself back to sanity?
What is the role of your sponsor relative to sanity?
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The following are suggested for sane living. Please comment.
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Live simple
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Learn to like work
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Learn a hobby
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Practice being satisfied
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Learn to like people
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Make use of adversity
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Live in the moment
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Ignore irritations
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Practice objectivity – feelings are not facts
12 Step Under the Microscope
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The Hazelden Publishing book is targeted largely to a general-interest readership, but Nowinski believes its straightforward accounting of major studies will prove useful to addiction professionals as well.
“It can help them to understand why they are sending someone to AA,” says Nowinski, who operates a private practice near Hartford, Conn. “I don’t like to go to a doctor who wants to give me a particular treatment and can’t explain why he thinks it’s going to work.”
Nowinski himself played an integral role in one of the most prominent studies comparing 12-Step and other approaches in the treatment of addiction. Yale University researchers in 1990 asked Nowinski to design an alcohol treatment program based on the 12-Step model. His “12-Step facilitation” intervention would be used in one of the three treatment arms in Project MATCH, a highly cited study in which nearly 2,000 individuals with an alcohol use disorder received either 12-Step facilitation, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or motivational enhancement therapy (MET).
The researchers found that all three treatments succeeded in promoting abstinence and reducing overall drinking at periods from three to 12 months post-treatment. In addition, 12-Step facilitation was reported to be as helpful to persons with an alcohol abuse problem as it was for those with more severe alcohol dependence.
Nowinski’s book focuses on crucial elements that enhance the success of 12-Step treatment and/or support once an individual decides to pursue that route. He considers these factors particularly critical:
• Consistent attendance at some 12-Step meetings. Research has shown that attending two to three meetings a week will yield a 70% probability of maintaining long-term sobriety five years post-treatment.
• Having a 12-Step sponsor, with particular importance on securing one in the first few months of recovery.
• One’s perception of one’s place in the 12-Step group. Research has indicated that the most actively engaged members who truly identify as being part of the group tend to have the best outcomes.
Nowinski, who also pens a blog for Psychology Today, says he becomes the target of criticism on many occasions when he writes about the 12 Steps. He sees several reasons why this remains such an incendiary topic.
“One is that AA has grown and grown—it is ubiquitous,” he says. “Anybody who feels they have a different approach sees it as competition.”
Another reason involves AA’s practice never to respond directly to criticism, based on its traditions that reinforce anonymity. “AA does not have a public relations office,” Nowinski says. “It is an easy target.”
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Making Decisions – Recovered 580
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The inability to make decisions when problems come along can be devastating.
This tension can be present even if we are not aware of it,
except that we know we are stressed.
Have you ever had difficulty making a decision?
Has the inability to solve the problem affected you?
How?
What about procrastination, do you struggle with this?
It is said that procrastination is the result of habitual inability to make decisions.
What about making the decision to address the drink problem?
Did you have a difficult time making the decision to get help?
When did you first think that you had a drinking problem?
When did you actually come into the program?
Did the stress level increase between the time you thought you had a problem and when you actually came into the fellowship?
Did you drink to alleviate the stress level?
What about making a decision to do the steps?
Did you procrastinate?
If so, how did that work?
After you made the decision to do the steps, how did that feel?
What causes indecision?
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Fear of failure – your thoughts?
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Refusal to accept reality – your thoughts?
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Lack of faith – your thoughts?
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Pride and stubbornness – your thoughts?
We are all about the solution.
what steps?
what prayers?
what slogans?
How has a sponsor helped?
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Alex From Austin
Use the slogan: Do the next right thing.
You don’t have to do everything at once, just a decision to do the next right thing.
Making decisions lead to happiness, the key to happiness.
Happiness is not pleasure.
Pleasure only occurs during the moment.
Taking a nap brings happiness during the moment, not so much afterward.
Happiness lasts beyond the moment.
I rarely look forward to working out.
But after I make the next right thing and decide to go to the gym.
I feel great after and for the rest of the day.
Happiness lasts beyond the moment of the workout.
It is the result of making right decisions.
Big Book References
p. 86
In thinking about our day we may face indecision. We may not be able to determine which course to take. Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision. We relax and take it easy. We don’t struggle. We are often surprised how the right answers come after we have tried this for a while.
Doctor’s Opinion
the psychopaths who are emotionally unstable. We are all familiar with this type. They are always “going on the wagon for keeps.” They are over-remorseful and make many resolutions, but never a decision.
p. 64
Though our decision was a vital and crucial step, it could have little permanent effect unless at once followed by a strenuous effort to face, and to be rid of, the things in ourselves which had been blocking us. Our liquor was but a symptom. So we had to get down to causes and conditions.
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